I’ve been writing for Hormones Matter for several months now and I’ve been thinking a lot about just how much hormones really do matter. After all, we’re all only alive because of hormones when you get right down to it. Yet, most of us give very little thought to our hormones or why they matter until we’re forced to do so for some reason.
As young adolescents, we’re taught mostly in health class that hormones prompt our bodies to develop into those of men and women. We recognize that underarm and pubic hair growth is an indication that all is going well. Boys voices deepen and girls develop breasts. New sexual feelings slowly emerge and the world takes on new meaning and all things become more colorful. We become alive as it were and suddenly have another purpose – that of connecting sexually and of reproducing at some point. There’s a good amount of information about how hormones influence sex and reproduction. Sadly, the information seems to mostly end there. It wasn’t until my hormone-producing organs were removed through an unconsented hysterectomy and bilateral salpingo oophorectomy that I began to realize how much my hormones had mattered.
In simplest terms, hormones are chemical messengers which travel through our blood and enter cells, tissues and organs where they turn on switches to the genetic machinery that regulate everything from reproduction to emotions, overall health and well being. Certain hormones have an effect on particular cells known as ‘target cells’. A target cell reacts to a particular hormone because it bears receptors for that hormone. This is why there’s never a time in a woman’s life when she doesn’t need hormones. Hormones can be thought of as the life giving force that ‘animates’ us physically, mentally, emotionally and even spiritually. When a woman undergoes hysterectomy, hormone-producing organs are permanently removed and hormones are lost forever. It’s important to know that hormones aren’t only involved in the production of a new life (as in baby in the womb new life), they sustain all life.
Realizing How Much Hormones Matter
At the time of my father’s death from a massive heart attack in 2009, I was still reeling from hysterectomy and ovary removal in 2007. I’ll never forget the first time I saw my father’s body after he passed away. It hit me really hard to see him full of life one day and then see him completely and utterly lifeless the next. It hit my son Christopher even harder I think. I’ll never forget his comment as he looked at his grandfather’s ‘lifeless’ body just before the dreaded funeral. He said matter-of-fact like “Papaw’s spirit is gone. There’s no more animation.” Christopher’s observation was a very profound one indeed. In a very real sense, I suppose that is what death means – no more animation. I’d never thought of it exactly like that before.
Suddenly, I couldn’t help but think about how much I had changed since hysterectomy. It was as if the very life had been sucked right out of me too. I wasn’t dead, but I wasn’t really alive either – at least not in any way that mattered. Along with the loss of my female organs, I had lost my animation in many ways too. My eyes no longer sparkled. My skin no longer glowed. All things became dry, dull and lackluster. Everything became an effort and ‘feelings’ were no longer present. Remember how it felt when you became sexually aware? Well think of the opposite of that. While I once viewed the world in living color, things appeared mostly grey to me after hysterectomy and the loss of hormones. In short, I lost my animation.
Beyond reproduction and the other physiological functions ovarian hormones control, in many ways, these hormones animate us. They provide the subtle nuances that make life interesting – a life giving force that colors our physical, mental, emotional and even spiritual selves. To be animated is to have life, interest, spirit, motion and activity. What happens when a woman undergoes hysterectomy and castration? Pretty much the same thing that happens to a man who is castrated, she loses her animation, her color – everything that makes life interesting and worth living disappears. And this is on top of the health issues that arise from the loss of hormones.
There can be no question that hormones matter. It is too bad that we don’t know this until after they are gone. Please give this much thought before ever agreeing to removal of your hormone-producing and life-sustaining organs. Always weigh the benefits and risks.
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Wow Karen, I’m so happy to hear that you’ve been instrumental in helping at least two women avoid hysterectomy. Thank you for commenting on my post. I will forever be grateful to you for all of your love and support. Will be in touch…
So proud to see your website and the valid information. I share your words with young women and older women who are contemplating removal of their organs, thus far, two have opted not to move forward on the surgery and are currently looking for alternatives. I am so proud of the work you are doing. I know how passionate you are about this subject. Give me a call, my number is the same. Hope to hear from you soon.
Thank you for reading my article WS. I agree with you that the losses keep coming… And, there are many. I remain completely devastated.
Robin – Thanks for another excellent article! You’re so right – you don’t know what you’ve got til it’s gone. I don’t know which is worse – the hormonal loss or the loss of my beautiful intact figure. So many losses…
Ivy, I’m not offended at all. I’m glad you commented. It sounds as if you may have needed to undergo hysterectomy. Women always have to weigh the risks vs the benefits for their particular situation.
The problem is that most hysterectomies are unnecessary – approximately 90% of them. I’m mostly speaking to that issue. There’s no question that over half a million women a year do not need to undergo removal of their female organs.
I had a hysterectomy back in 2011,at the age of 31. I also have SLE and autonomic dysfunction… that surgery saved my life.
I am very sorry that you feel losing the hormones took away a part of who you are…but I can tell you, that without my surgery I was bedridden for two and a half weeks per month due to the surge in hormones and how my lupus and autonomic issues reacted. Although I am not “cured” or even in remission, I am much better then I was before my operation.
I just wanted to offer a different perspective to a highly sensitive issue. I hope you are not offended by my response!
You bring up an important point, not all hysterectomies are bad. Some are necessary and even helpful. Perhaps you would like to share your experience, particularly the intersection of autoimmune disorders such as Lupus and cycling hormones. Many women suffer from SLE and could find your story useful. Thanks for commenting.
Ivy, I have exactly that. I would love to speak with you. Are you on fb?